Hello,
Have you at least invited your wife here to talk with other GGs and get a better understanding of CDing?

I like the idea of joining a club, many welcome your spouse and there will be other GGs there and a place to dress away from the presures of home and child... while she wraps her mind around the importance of it.[ for you]

Just Please watch yourself and check any anger issues you may have. Remember it's not her fault she doesn't get it. You need to help her understand.

Best wishes,
Presh GG