I know, I did not mean to make it seem like he was. My point is so many people nowadays don't feel like it's important to tell really anything in a "relationship"(which some people my age and younger have NO CLUE what that word means). After talking with many of my "friends", things like making out with someone else, giving oral sex and to most sleeping with someone else is "no big deal" and they dont have to tell their SO about it. And these were all GG's that were telling me this....
My so to be Ex-wife explained it(when she told me about some of the guys she slept with during our marriage) as "it didn't involve you, so I didn't have to tell you"......words can not express how pissed off I am at everyone I see around me nowadays. To put it simply, I HATE everyone and EVERYTHING now.