Quote Originally Posted by Jonianne View Post
If you do not know how to give REAL love to yourself, then learn how by "letting in" and "receiving" the love and caring all of us and others around you are trying to give you. It doesn't matter what the advice is, it's the fact that we are trying to show caring. Let that sink in and know that you are NOT alone.

Untill you choose to do that, you cannot learn to love yourself.

A good book resource is "Celebrate Yourself" by Dorothy Corkille Briggs.

"I find my reflection in all those around, where inner connection so longed for is found" by Aliciaweb
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ummmm...........i think you just gave me the answer. You guys are not getting in what respect i am trying to have this discussion. All you see/hear/ and feel from my posts is a mirror image of yourself and what you went through.

And i can't accept myself as a female in the same way i can't acccept myself as JUST male. They both are "PART" of me, not ME. I "DO" accept myself but my "self" without a gender, the in between.

And i do have a hard time letting love in, basically because i don't know how. But getting "love" from internet users who are communicating by digital messaging from around the country/world is a little hard i have to say.

But YES I do have to love myself. And im getting better at that. I'll start with the person closest to me (myself) and work my way out.

And AGAIN dont get me wrong. i do appreciate you guys talking.... im sure its getting a little annoying...