I've been thinking about this for a couple of days now and thinking about when the "I'm not" bothers me. There is the very long thread about would you consider dating a guy and I think that is the place it really got to me. People would pop in to say yes or no to the question but then others would phrase it so that to me it came out more along the lines of "of course not, that is wrong" No one actually wrote, it was more the impression I was left with.
