See this thread http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...men-reject-CDs
and use the search function. This has been discussed many times. It seems people like to rehash over and ask the same questions over and over again, hoping for a new answer. And sure, when you're here, 'preaching to the choir', you'll get nice, supportive answers a lot. But in the real world, men do not typically dress and act like women, we are seen as unstable and unreliable persons, because our behavior is not what people have grown to expect from men. You can't change human nature.