Thank you for all your interesting comments.
I would just like to point out the reason for my post.
The point I was trying to get across was to see it from there [the SOs] point of view. That in many cases as much compassion should be felt for them as the crossdresser. [Perhaps more in some cases] It would be very unfair to apportion any blame to a woman for not liking her partner dressing up as a women.

Thank you, SUZY