Hello Suzy!
You are right. For most women this is a given. My wife hates my CD and will never accept it. When asked why though (for my understanding) I get because it is "no normal", "it is wrong", and I cannot accept you as a man anymore. I just want to know what it is about wearing female clothes that can elicit such a huge amount of angst. It is an answer that will never be answered. CD is just not normal.