your op said more than what you are saying now..
you said
"I always thought badly towards the TS girls after they transition and disappear from the community. Now I am beginning to understand since I am feeling that same feeling. While my feelings are those of just a cd'er, I see the simularities."
I'm saying that the similarities are superficial. I'm saying it's not the same feeling...
it's a false and damaging narrative to say that ts people somehow owe "the community"
the costs of transition are so high in every way, it's an unrealistic burden to owe anybody anything.
why does anyone assume that ts women don't tell those behind us about our experiences??
every transsexual person i know quietly advises other transsexuals on important matters around transition..
there comes a point for most where the endgame is to disappear, but don;t underestimate everything that's done prior to help prior to that...
and even those that are "deep stealth..what a term!" often communicate and help others like secret spies..
