Milestone...first real date with a guy...

[Rianna Humble]

You've been surgically transformed into what "appears to be a woman". Yet you possess neither ovaries nor a uterus, making you unable to bear children. So do you wait to tell him until he expresses the desire to raise a family?

I take it from that statement that you consider any infdertile woman to only "appear to be a woman", and what about someone who has had to have a hysterectomy. Again by your definition, se is not a woman. Get real.

I'm certainly not transphobic. I'm a realist.

The common cry of most of your fellow haters.

The point of telling is honesty. If he'd been to prison, it wouldn't preclude him from fathering children. So your point is irrelevant.

Does this mean that if he was unable to far=ther children you would not consider him to be a man? I think you need to get some professional help to flush this bigotry out of your system.

I'm sure it is. So what do you tell him when he tells you he wants children?

All that she needs to tell him is that in common with about 1 in seven other women she is unable to have children.

Read my above responses as to my point of view. If you have a qualifying argument to the contrary, by all means elaborate on your position. Otherwise, shut up.

Your above responses show your point of view very clearly. You consider that anyone who cannot procreate is not a man or not a woman. As to whether our arguments "qualify" - luckily it is not the bigots who get to decide this.