Linda, you never did answer these questions by Frances....
Since Linda hasn't answered that question for Frances & the rest of us here, I think I will answer it on his behalfOriginally Posted by Frances
after I took a look at some of his postings. Linda indicates in his postings that he is a closet CD & not even his
wife knows about his cross-dressing desires or habits & here is why I say this....
Do you recall any of these statements you made in the most recent thread you posted Linda?
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...think-so.-quot
My wife and I used to belong to a gym. We quit because of maintenance and staff attitude issues. She joined a "women only" gym and really likes it. Yesterday I was complaining to her about some aches and pains and she said to me that I should start exercising. I said "Maybe I could buy a wig and a set of falsies and join your gym." She gave me a very strange look for a second, then a normal look and replied "I don't think so."It would help if you knew that:
1 She doesn't know I cross dress.
2 I was kidding. Of course I would be found out. It's just that funny look she gave me for an instant. Maybe she does know.No Linda you are not realistic, you are extremely transphobic, to the point you can't even be honest with your wife!
So please cut the crap. I also strongly suspect that you hide your face in your avatar because fear anyone knowing
anything about you. Your knowledge about transsexualism is obviously very limited & you have no experience to have
any sort of qualified opinion about what others should be doing. It's also extremely hypocritical that you are advising
Julie here to be honest when you can't even be honest to your wife.
Julie seems like the type of girl who is very happy about being in 'stealth-mode' because she passes so well & I think
that you have some issues with that because you don't pass at all & cannot even be honest to your own wife. So as
far as I am concerned, your personal opinion is extremely hypocritical & means absolutely nothing to me & others here.
PS: Linda are you still borrowing your wife's clothes every time she turns her back & is away?
Hi Reine,
I think comparing CDing to transsexualism is like comparing a pear to an onion, they have very little to virtually
nothing in common. For a start transsexuals go on hormones which make permanent life changing alterations to
their bodies & often plan of having GRS/SRS in the future. So if you are already in a relationship then there is a
very obvious need to disclose this information to your partner because they might not be prepared to be with a
person of the same sex. Now a cross-dresser is a man or a woman who is only dressing up, 'pretending' to be a
member of the opposite sex. Putting on clothes of the opposite sex doesn't have anywhere near the amount of
implications for a partner of someone who starts taking cross-sex hormones & is thinking about GRS/SRS.
