I'm afraid you still don't get it THAT WIFES ARE PEOPLE TOO with REAL feelings , real HEARTS and they deserve to go into a marriage knowing the person they are marrying. What is sooo hard to understand about ?
Lying hideing , deceipt is not ok, now or then.
And when this wife is no longer young and able to start over or CHOOSE to stay , some of you decide NOW is the time to "spring it on her " Come on , I've read that .......WOW , that's real love ,,, NOT.
Presh GG