Sorry, no flames here. It would be easier to carry on a reasonable discussion if you actually addressed the issues we brought up rather than simply dismissing them out of hand. I went to considerable effort here and in other threads to express the years of pain, guilt, and self-recrimination that I went through but you simply dismissed it as a "mass of rationalizations." Are your feelings the only ones that count here?
Eryn,
Perhaps if you had read mine and many other GG's posts, you would realize how GGs and thier feelings are routinely dismissed around here.
It's rich to accuse us of that.
How many times have GGs spilled thier guts in heartfelt painful posts, only to have thier pain diminished and ignored?
Yet you clamor for a "reasonable discussion"....in such a dismissive manner.
You are not the only one to have ever shed a tear dear.
