Feminism interfering with crossdressing?

[kendra_gurl]

Perhaps it's because I lack a transvestic fetish as a motivating factor?

You may be correct about that. It means that as you have done research you have grown into something more than perhaps you were when you started. I think this entire thread and the responses to it show how most of us here are more than just fetish crossdressers. While there might always remain some form of role play or fetish in private we enjoy along with it while we are dressed, I think there are very few who are on this site who take things to the extreme of wanting to experience a menstrual cycle. Sure there are thousands of those out there with all sorts kinks and fetishes but I really doubt they would get all dressed up then get their toys out or put on a artificialfical vagina and set at their PC's reading post on this site. There are way too many you tube, xtube and similar sites they would find way more to their enjoyment.

And, that's what I feel the OP was getting at. CDing isn't wrong as long as YOU own it and don't use it as measuring stick for the ideal femininity. Most CDs are on the epic journey to achieve ideal femininity and look like the ideal woman when dressed. Well, I can tell you right now that so many are literally failing at it miserably because they haven't the first clue what femininity is...and, I can also tell you that you won't find it inside the perfect dress or up inside of a synthetic vajayjay.

I agree with what your saying. I would just caution that femininity and feminism are two different things. When a CD tries to achieve femininity through an ideal look it is only from their own perspective. The way they want to look to themselves in the mirror or in public but that does not mean they want all the women in the world to dress the same way. I don't dress the same way everytime I dress. I wear jeans and a top with flip flops a lot more than a dress or a skirt because that is how most GG's dress where I go. I am not trying to experience everything about being feminine and I am certainly not trying to make any statement about the feminist movement. All I am doing is dressing and trying to act in a feminine manner.

As for the Sissy CD. they are simply emulating the GG's in costumes playing the part of Maids or feminine fantsy girls they see in Porn. I mean really its out there aways being portrayede by WOMEN making a living doing in so film but that is not their true identities or intent to make anyone think it is how all women should act or dress.