After reading 6 pages of this thread, you all are all over the place with this topic.
Here is the plain and simple truth. If you are planning on marrying the girl or boy of your dreams and you crossdress, you need to tell your future spouse right now.
If your crossdressing started after you were married, you need to stop and tell your spouse right now before things get way out of control.
Communication with your spouse is of the utmost importance in a marriage.
