This is a very thoughtful post and one that I can relate to. I realized not that long ago that my "fem" voice I use when dressed and presenting female is no more "fake" than my male voice which I have for years and years deepened, especially around certain people. The fem voice is actually more natural and this is true about a lot of other mannerisms and aspects of life. I am really just coming around to realizing all this and am a much more "natural" acting person but so much of my life I have really hidden being feminine.
