OK.That makes sense, both what you and Lorileah said.
I'm with Lorileah on this, since I live alone and all tasks fall to me.
Also, I understand why some people would think it isn't fair, if gender gaps are narrowing in terms of jobs and household responsibilities, then why can't they also narrow in terms of what is acceptable for a MtF CDer to wear, especially when women have now appropriated what was once considered traditional male wear (pants).
I think the answer is that gender identity is independent from changing gender roles in the workforce or the household. Men who enter the nursing profession now (this is on the rise too), or men who care for their kids or cook do not feel more feminine, just as women who do lawn work like myself, or who become workplace professionals do not feel more masculine. Gender identity I think is much deeper than that.
