I have often fantasized about finding a partner who presents as male, but is a genetic girl. And, I could present as a female, but remain a genetic boy. Part of this, is I would love to be able to express myself as the female i fell inside me so often.. but being born with male parts... it would be important to me to be able to have children with my partner. As far as roles, I tend to have some androgynous tendencies... and lucky for me, my SO does also. While she doesn't identify as male in any way that I can tell, or that we've discussed... she is supportive, encouraging, and accepting of my dressing - and femininity. This has been one of the single most refreshing and important aspects of our relationship. I am just has excited to present as a lesbian couple with her as I used to fantasize about reversing roles.