Melissa it is totally ok for you to want to be a chick with a penis. It is ok for you to think you can date STRAIGHT men. It is ok for you to say your transgender. It is ok for you to want to live the way you wish. What is not ok is for you to call yourself transsexual (or a woman for that matter) if you are not willing to do what it takes to ACTUALLY be one.
Crossdressers go to great lengths to present to the world this image of a woman, but that does not make them a woman. A woman is born a woman and women dont have penises. A woman with a penis is going to want to correct that because its NOT supposed to be there. I assure you that that any woman including a transsexual that became aware of your desire to present a woman but keep your peinis is NOT going to be seen as a woman.
Come to think of it a cis woman could say that post op girls are not women because they dont have ovaries and a uterus. Well I tell you what if they invented the ability to have those I would be in line! I would do it because thats what being a woman is.
Katie
