Hey Anne!

What you say makes perfect sense. I do think that the tendency is somewhat like a pendulum that will ultimately come to rest or close to it. When we first face up to this side of ourselves it is explosive and we want to do it all now(!). The pendulum is swinging like crazy. As we finally start to allow our feminine side to exist, the swings start to decrease. Eventually we find the balance of our masculine and feminine sides.

I've heard others say that eventually they reach a point where they have integrated their M & F sides so well that they no longer feel the need to dress. Frankly, it is too much fun so I hope that I always want to dress. At least always want to go to MAC!

Debby