I think you are having fun with me now. Let me see if I have got this. If he is a she, but really a he, and has sex with him, then she is bi, even when she is he. Unless he really is a she, in which case she is straight but the other is gay. Now if the other would rather he be a she, then they are both straight. But if she, who is really a he, would rather the other to be a her than a him, then she who is a he is just kidding him or herself. But I thought you, who really is a her, allowed the possibility that she who is really a he wanted so much to be a her, that she would have sex with him, but not when she is a he. That would seem to me, merely a he, that he when a she was bi, but not when she was a he.
I think I am going to cry uncle, or maybe it is aunt, and go to bed. She who really is a she is asleep up there waiting for me to be a he.
Sweet dreams,
Liz
