Well I made it to a Therapist who deals with this type of thing and it has been of value. On my last visit I took my GF and while things are still good between us, the CDing outlook is fairly bleak. My girl can't see a way that she could accept it. We have another meeting in couple of weeks by which time I hope to have more things figured out. My hopes for an accepting SO are pretty low if not non existent now. To all who have accepting SO's, I'm now officially jealous of you. In the grand scheme of things life could be worse, I still have a loving girlfriend.