Quote Originally Posted by Marleena View Post
In my case she accepts and has not said I don't want to see it but I do not dress in front of her. She has never said go get dressed up for me.

So I only dress up in front of her on Halloween, she is comfortable with that day. When she is around I will undress, she knows I have shaved legs, painted toes, and have panties on.

I guess it's about not making her feel uncomfortable. I do tell her in advance when I'm going to play with makeup, that's kinda tough to hide, but still having facial hair might help there. I think getting the green light from our SO's is awesome and I don't want to push my luck.
I'm in a similar boat. She is supportive but usually does not like to see it. However, if there's a good excuse, then she's fine with it. She's gone out with me dressed one Halloween, and has performed along side me in two charity drag shows. Like you, I try not to push my luck, and let her set the level of her involvement.