IMHO? You guys need to talk some more. Maybe sharing Denise with her is just not the right thing to do right now. Why not come back to the hotel room as her husband and make mad passionate love to her. That might quell some of her fears.
You do understand what she is afraid of, don't you? She's afraid she is gonna loose you. To what she is not quite sure. But that's it in a nutshell. She is terrified that you are somehow going to change who you are. I suspect that you think you aren't going to change at all. But dear, she doesn't know that at all. It's up to you to show her you are still the same guy she married.
Listen. She doesn't have to participate in this. Don't force her. If you come back to the hotel as "Denise" I predict trouble.
I think you should get the makeover. Take some pictures. Walk around a bit. Do a little gambling, maybe. Have some fun. And then change back into the man she married. Take her out, wine and dine her, and then jump her bones back at the hotel. She will love you for it, honest.
Auntie Stephenie
