Denise, please take it slow. I have to agree there is more going on here than just cross dressing, and both of you are building up resentment inside that is not good for either. You seem resentful over being forced to be the responsible one. She has a drinking and emotional problem. Please dont let any unspoken resentment over your dressing escalate the situation. Talk it through when she is sober. It just doesn't sound like you have really talked and expressed the true inner feelings, but I cannot really tell. Please consider professional help.
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