Quote Originally Posted by Baby Steps View Post
Denise, please take it slow. I have to agree there is more going on here than just cross dressing, and both of you are building up resentment inside that is not good for either. You seem resentful over being forced to be the responsible one. She has a drinking and emotional problem. Please dont let any unspoken resentment over your dressing escalate the situation. Talk it through when she is sober. It just doesn't sound like you have really talked and expressed the true inner feelings, but I cannot really tell. Please consider professional help.

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That is the problem sobor or not she doesn't want to talk about things, and believe me, crossdressing is not the only issue that needs to be addressed. She knows I read the book my husband Betty, she said that she would read it but has not yet. I truely wish that I can communicate with her but I can not. We do have some fun times together but as the years go by the fun times have lessened. It is TRUE, I do resent her drinking and lack of responsibility. I figure ,I deal with a lot why can't she. AND No is am not a TS or plan on having SRS , I am not brave like some in here or willing to distrubt my socalled normal way of life. We all have our crosses to bare , some are heavier than others!