Quote Originally Posted by Gianna View Post
I agree with you that just like a GG, a CD'r can periodically give in to her urges for intimacy while still prudently exercising the same discretion and personal esteem in choosing a partner that isn't a 'faceless outsider' for 'just sex'.
I understand what you're saying if this person is gay or bi. But I don't get the "periodic" part. I mean, if the CD is into the male partner because there is a real attraction there, why should being dressed make any difference?

Also, would this person's partner feel that he is having sex just as he would with a GG? If not, wouldn't there be a disconnect somewhere?