Quote Originally Posted by Shananigans View Post
It's kind of even sad that it is the "ultimate CDing experience" because of the fact that it relies on some faceless outsider to give you an "ultimate experience". It is also implicating that CDs can only fulfill a feminine role in bed with another male...however, lesbians have been doing quite the opposite for centuries.

Either way, I feel horrible for people with such a low self-esteem that validation from others is a necessary component to feeling better about themselves.
I don't mean to speak for all other CD's and don't think I implied that all CD's feel this way. From reading across this entire forum, I don't seem to share this part of the CD experience with the majority of those here.

I was trying to point out that some of us bisexual crossdressers feel this to be an ultimate sexual experience, not a definition of who we are.

Sex with a man is not what my crossdressing is all about. But it is sometimes, and being treated as a female sexually by a man is the ultimate sexual CDing experience for me and others, but of course not all. I'm sure for some CD's (if they have the sexual part) it would be a lesbian thing.

Either way, definitely not the ultimate life experience by any stretch.
It may be sad to you but to some it's just sex.