*sits back munching popcorn and drinking soda*
You know, I feel partly responsible in all this, but this is just too much. I just wanted some resources. If you want to help, stop giving opinions and start posting some links. That's all I wanted. I'm brand new to the community and already I feel jaded. If I had a lower sense of self esteem, I might have believed that all I was was a random ******* destined for the porn industry because apparently that's what non-op transsexuals are seen as right? Nevermind that I have a male SO that I love and would not be able to continur having a relationship with if I got my thing hacked off. Nevermind that I want to have children, naturrally, and am willing to put up with the internal and external hate to have a baby any way that I can. The day that my man tells me he doesn't care coupled with the day they find a way to allow transgenders to give birth will be the day I'm ready to have srs. Until then I really have no choice but to suck it up.
Judge as you see fit. I've made my choice and since non-op transsexual is a taboo term which incites pointless flame wars, I will identify as transgendered on these forums. Everybody a happy camper now?