Quote Originally Posted by Marleena View Post
Ummm.. just no! Only a minority here are TS. The majority here are crossdressers. They are GM's with a female personna they enjoy when needed. They prefer to be male.
I disagree. All you have to do is read the threads in the MTF section or know a few in person. I have been around this community a long time and have been privy to the confessions from crossdressers. Confessions about wanting to live full time female, wanting to be with a man, if they were not married they would live the life they really want, etc. This is my opinion from my personal experience. I think it's about time someone speaks honestly about it. So's would not suffer so much if all the cards were put on the table from the beginging. So's have to really absorb the truth when it is presented as well. Perhaps Julia's wife would not have abandonded the relationship or perhaps not have promised something she could not follow through with if the truth was faced honestly. I am not making a judgement on the trans community, it is what it is and I'm glad people are speaking honestly aobut it. My perspective is obviously from the non cd perspective and I know how easy it is to not want to face the truth. I truly think that so's only get let in on the tip of the iceburg. Hundreds of you have said as much. Please don't fault me for having an opinion different than yours.