When I came out, my ex wife swore that it would never be an issue, but every argument and fight we had (and they were numerous, which is one of many reasons she's an "ex" now) she would bring it up and use it against me. The topic never went away, whenever she got angry it would eventually boil down to "Well if you were not crossdressing, you'd... <insert something here>". That usually had me storming off because of the way I felt betrayed every time that came up. She was as reliable as a hungry shark whenever any arguments came up, she'd tie anything (dog died, property taxes went up, Bush getting re-elected, etc) to my crossdressing.
I'm so much happier now that I'm rid of her. No more head games.
