Quote Originally Posted by NicoleScott View Post
What? She's going to stay in the marriage, not at all happy about your crossdressing, but pretty much resigned to it, and your response is to push the femininity envelope farther?
I have to agree with this. If she is basically telling you that she wants a Don't Ask Don't Tell policy, the why on earth would you jump to shaving your legs and arm pits?!?! The shaving is one HUGE issue with a wife. We complain about it all the time! We don't want the constant reminder that our SO's crossdress, and having prickly legs touch us in bed is just that! It is also summer time, and shorts are a huge part of the male wardrobe right now. You live with her mom, do you want her seeing silky smooth legs? You would be homeless and divorced in seconds.

Think things through. Only dress when the need is too great. Don't take advantage of the fact that she wants her husband, no matter the cost, and is willing to overlook this one aspect. You need to respect that she doesn't like it, and find it in yourself to only stay in her comfort zone.