Do you want to be a girl or just look like one?

[whowhatwhen]

More you dress like a girl, more you get addicted to it :P
but, to be honest, no one ( I mean CDs) can live without his man side

That's not necessarily true, if I weren't a hopeless coward my "man side" would be dropped like a hot potato.

[phylisanne]

i am in the same situation as another girl said about being born at the wrong time.i am a person from the 50s and back then i always wanted to be a girl but back then this was impossible and of course there was no internet.so i thought that i was the only kid that had these feelings.so back to the future and i am a 69 year crossdresser and i am enjoying being a woman part of the time and having a wonderful wife who supports me.and i also belong to a great meetup group here in the big city and i go out dressed every thursday evening to meet all my sisters.

[Nicole Rose]

I find myself just yearning to be feminine every single day. I am not sure if getting SRS would satisfy me. I'm quite scared to even think about it but if it was possible for me to look like a passable woman and not go through all the therapy and surgery, I'd probably stay myself. Sometimes I feel like if I got SRS, it would solve all my problems and I would feel less depressed...but at the same time I just want to be girly and not go through the struggle!

[emilygielen]

I always wanted to be a real girl! At 6, I wanted to be a girl, at 10 I wanted to be a girl, at 14 I wanted to be a girl... But now, i'm 25 and I'm asking myself if I really want to be a girl! Because I discovered the life and now I mostly want to look more like a girl. And maybe in few years I will make my long-time dream come true! I first want a girlfriend that supports my willing and have my own child before going further!

[Kate Simmons]

I find myself just yearning to be feminine every single day. I am not sure if getting SRS would satisfy me. I'm quite scared to even think about it but if it was possible for me to look like a passable woman and not go through all the therapy and surgery, I'd probably stay myself. Sometimes I feel like if I got SRS, it would solve all my problems and I would feel less depressed...but at the same time I just want to be girly and not go through the struggle!

Well, that is definitely doable Nicole. Pretty much what I do Hon.

[silkypantyboy71]

Like many others here, I am reasonably comfortable as a man and being happily married with a young child, I don't see myself crossdressing on anything other than a part-time level. However, I've often thought lately that I kind of wish I had allowed myself to be "caught" by my family when I was young. I was too good at hiding my CD'ing so no one ever found out. I often wish that I could have transitioned at that age. I'm a bit conflicted about it all.

[BRANDYJ]

I am happy the way things are. Think about it...If I was a girl, then I'd no longer be a crossdresser! How boring life might be. I like both my male and female persona and would not want to change it.

[sherib]

When I was very young I always wanted to be a girl. every day that is all I tought about was having the sex change operation that I heard about. But as I grew older and saw what the operation cost and what they did I sort of changed my mine. I've had enough shots in my life time, I woundn't want to do it every week or month. Now I'm happy just the way I am. , although I wish I had more time to dress.

[Anna M]

When I'm being brutally honest with myself? I want to be one. The clothes are just the stuff on the outside, and there are lots of women who don't wear super-girly-frilly feminine stuff (butch lesbians, tomboys, or even women who just wear plain simple clothing for religious reasons or personal preference). But where I am today, the clothes are the closest I can get. With luck and competent therapy, I hope to change that...

[Karinsamatha]

I would love to have my outside match what I feel is on the inside. So I have started seeing a gender therapist. With hopes that what I need and want can be a reality in the future.

[JamieQ]

Hummm.... if it were possible (it isn't at the moment) I really think I would go all they way to SRS. I really don't like being a man but Im not attacted to any either.

I thought a bit about it last night. I am attracted to a few men at work. I'm not sure what I would want to do with one but I think I could about suppress any man in me if I had the chance. Everything waist up I would let him do, anything waist down a definite NO-NO! I could definitely do it in girl mode, no way in guy mode. Heck I'de be happy to at least make it 6 months to a year on HRT. I think that is my goal if current situations would ever change.... I know I'm good Tgirl material... I kind of have the shape for it...

[5150 Girl]

I've known from an ealy age that I should have been born a girl. Now I wish I'd had the courage to spek up when I was young.

[Anna M]

I spoke up when I was young and was pooh-poohed by obviously-discomfited adults all the way into denial and repression. Speaking up doesn't always work.

[NathalieX66]

I always want to look like a girl, however I don't suffer from any kind of gender dysphoria, other than the fact that I don't like the constraints of being a guy, I find it too confining for who I am.

[whowhatwhen]

I would love to have my outside match what I feel is on the inside. So I have started seeing a gender therapist. With hopes that what I need and want can be a reality in the future.

I've just started and I feel so much better now that I have someone to talk to.
For anyone on the fence, it's totally worth it IMO.

[Britney Johnson]

Personally, I choose to be a girl. I have fought with myself for so many years, and after a lifetime of hiding, finally know that I should have followed my dream ages ago. I have tried to change who I am and gone the way of male friends that were macho, and all aalong I just wanted to be that fun sexy girl, to be free to be me... I am not there yet, but I am definately heading towards my dream to feel whole as a person.

[Tess]

I always wanted to be a woman, but I'm somehow less keen on being a transexual woman. I don't mean to offend anyone in any way with this statement, but there really is a difference. I guess I mean that I wanted all the things that girls have such as a female childhood, first date, first kiss, first prom, wedding day, and all that gooey stuff. I wanted a life as a woman without the gender dysphoria, which I guess can only come by being born that way.

I settled into married life with a truly wonderful woman, and I've accepted my lot in life as her husband. I'll probably always have a sense of loss, and a longing for womanhood, but I manage to stay content by simply enjoying my femme moments while crossdressed. I made my choice, and I'm willing to live with it.

And when I'm crossdressed, yes....I want to look like a girl.

You expressed how I feel perfectly Maria.

[JillofHawaii]

I am happy the way things are. Think about it...If I was a girl, then I'd no longer be a crossdresser! How boring life might be. I like both my male and female persona and would not want to change it.

I TOTALLY agree with you. I TRULY enjoy both sides of me. I just wish all those "normal" people, who are so uni-sexed in their identity could just accept the fact that some of us are multi-sexed. I want to enjoy my lives and have others enjoy theirs without intruding in to my worlds with their one dimensional ideas. Aloha, jill

[JillofHawaii]

Oh my, now that's a sweet idea....

[priyaverma]

well, from the day I was born ... my Mom told me I was destined to be a girl and even deep inside me I knew I was a girl rather than a boy... and even now I am just 18 and I know my Soul is fully of Women....
so I dont think there is any option ?

[Lyndaloves]

I would really really like to be a woman and would willingly accept an invitation for a total srs.
But it would have to be with a bod to die for lol
But that ain't gonna happen anyways
As stated earlier if I knew back in my teens what was available what I know now I would be a woman today.
But seeing as my life is already slated to be a husband, father and probably grandfather I will just have to accept who I am.
It would be nice to be accepted by my SO and could enjoy Lynda whenever she wanted to appear
But that ain't gonna happen either

Lyndaloves

[vivianann]

I just want to look like a woman. I do not want srs. However I would like to live as a woman all of the time, but that is not possible at this time.

[Kate Simmons]

I just want to look like a woman. I do not want srs. However I would like to live as a woman all of the time, but that is not possible at this time.

I could probably do that if I wanted. I am high maintenance as far as shedding body hair though, so if I did decide to live full time looking like a woman, there would have to be definite changes in that respect.

[angl]

hey I am the same way vivianann I am happy where I am at this time

[Kristencdct]

I want to be a woman and would accept the change in a heartbeat.