Hi Lesley
Could you describe a little bit about how it "Feels" to be female. This is a personal experience that I think is different for each person including GG's but I have found that as I went deeper into understanding my own personal experience of this "feeling" I than also was able to understand my motives/reasons for what I wanted because I was able to understand there source.
Think about the difference between acting female and being female as your guide.
