Originally Posted by
Lesley_Roberta
I am seeking here of course, looking for answers, and wondering what are my options?, what is really required? and how far does a person need to go?
Yes I want to dress correctly, but is it weird to not go that route?
I am not likely going to see transition in my life, so I will be stuck in a male body (yippee, insert lack of enthusiasm now).
That leaves me in what I consider a crappy spot. I don't get to LOOK female, I don't get to be anatomically female, I just get to FEEL female. Bubble baths feel nice, and smelling pretty helps..... but no one is going to treat me like anything other than a guy.
As I see it, that's just being doomed to getting ignored.
Every time I post, I hear this voice in my head asking, 'so why am I here again?'.
You're not a CDer, you ain't a transexual waiting on an operation, so what is you expect anyone to do about ya?
I am told I am TG, yet if I don't wear the clothes, I feel like some how I am just someone doing their best to make their life complicated for no gain. My friends are never going to use feminine gender language in speaking to me if I don't appear to be any different (other than my behaviour which I don't think is very significantly different from Leslie's). I mean I get, 'you listen to girl music' from some of my friends, and they think I am 'confused' for playing female characters in my role games.
