Quote Originally Posted by joannemarie barker View Post
I don't think you have to be Hetero to understand that at all.not all guys do that for me either and no camp guys do at all but there have been one or two guys that have given me that nervous butterflies feeling in my stomach
Huh? Did you read the question that I was answering? In short, Sophie was asking people not to dismiss real male attraction as being "fake", since if women aren't attracted to all men, it could well be that men aren't attracted to all men either. My response is that hetero women aren't attracted to other women at all, not even one or two. If you have a real attraction to some men then by definition you're not hetero. :p

... I also need to expand on this. If you fantasize about some men but have not physically determined whether you are turned off or not by placing yourself in the situation of being a male-bodied individual who is having sex with another male-bodied individual, then you don't know whether or not you are same sex attracted. Keeping all of this at the fantasy level might be a lot of fun (there are no limits to fantasies), but it doesn't provide any real answers.