To be brutely honest, ditch the wig for a more realistic age appropriate style. Its to slick, stiff, at the part in the middle and it screams "MAN" to me.Its just to 'wiggy' looking ! I've been going out in public dressed for over 50 years and I have found that over the years the main determining factor of being read ' man' was an i appropriate wig. I have 3-4 now that are perfect for my age and face and get them professionally styled by beauticians who compliment and comfirm second opinion that it ' looks right. You can't do anything about the obvious square jaw but a shorter softer more frazzeled natural looking wig with earrings would draw attention away. You can do it, just tweek your face and hair and style some. Go Girl