Crossdressing and male attraction

[BiancaEstrella]

Ugh...THANK YOU! I've said this until I am blue in the face.

I don't think liking d*ck makes you bisexual...but, I'm also not about what sean was saying with this gradual transition into becoming more gay. I'm pretty sure there are a lot of guys out there that like d*ck, but aren't turned on by guys. So, they aren't bisexual. Having a d*ck fetish doesn't put you on some sort of path to gay...it probably just means you have a thing about d*cks. There a lot of girls that like boobs...there are a lot of girls that like booties...but, I wouldn't say they are on a path to becoming lesbians lol

I've seen it opined that as soon as a man consciously partakes in a homosexual act*, he's gay and it's irreversible. They think that bisexuality in men is a farce, and that even one homosexual action is the gateway to exclusively participating in homosexual actions.. only that the guy in question may not know it yet. Of course, to these guys, lesbian sex is "OMG HAWT" and they don't mind what I'll simply call "fakebian" activities by women they find attractive....

As both a crossdresser and an LGBTQ friend/supporter, statement like those about men really make me upset. It's a very narrow-minded and hurtful thing to say.

I don't know a lot of women who get off on other women's boobs or butts unless they ARE lesbian.

But, I have noticed a trend now that didn't exist when I was in my 20s. Some of the younger women in nightclubs are dancing together in a hot way that suggests they are lesbian.

Not necessarily getting off, but I've observed online communities where the women were not only more comfortable with sending other women provocative (if not outright naked) photos, but the 2-3 women who mainly received these photos both bragged about being in a position to receive such photos and willingly discussed/ogled said photos (although this was usually done in general terms and in ways that kept the senders' privacy intact).

I've also seen where a woman will just post a pic on Instagram or even Facebook, and many/most of the compliments came from women. And these weren't the "that polish shade is fantastic, what's it called?" variety but the more primal "daaaaaaamn you fine" variety.

I've also seen the suggestive dancing in nightclubs or bars, the girl in me usually wants to join in but the prevailing guy in me says no