I know exactly what you mean frederique, I too have experience the disdain, or the I am better than thou type of attitude in the tg community, I have always identified myself as a crossdresser, because that is what I do, however when I search deep down in my being it is much more complicated than I like it to be, because of the labeling in the tg community it is difficult at best for some of us to identify as we truly are. As I have stated earlier and in the past, I consider myself to be a crossdresser, because I do not want to have a sex change, however I identify more as a woman than I do a man, I want to live 24/7 as a woman and am working on achieving that goal. Sometimes I see myself wanting to identify as a *******, but I dont like the negative conotation, or stigma that goes with that label, because I am not into the pornagraphy aspect of that lifestyle. I just want to look like a woman with breasts, and bodyshape, and a feminine looking face, and to live as a woman, but keep my genitaila as they are. Another thing I am attracted to GGs, so where does that put me in the labeling spectrum.
I am tired of being looked down on, because I am not ts, or because I dont drink alcoholic beverages at tg events, my dresses are too conservative, and I am JUST A CROSSDRESSER!, like it means I am a lesser person. The list goes on and on.
I accept everybody as they are, we are all equal no matter what label we choose or not choose for ourselves inside the wide spectrum of the tg community.
