Ok I do realize all your concerns but when I am sitting in the recliner and I am barefoot and you have to look past my feet to see the TV how can one not notice , Kathy did notice but didn't make a comment to my wife. How would I explain this to he I love to have pedicures and get polish put on because I am a Macho man. I just told her not to make a big deal in front of my wife, that would have caused more issues. her questions lead to more explaining and pictures. No she has not told my wife, when I say BFF sometimes they go month without talking or even chatting on the phone . It is just that my wife been friends with her since a teen. No, she is just a friendly girl, when we meet we kiss in the lips, in front of the wife, that is just how she is. I really don't think major harm was done she thought it was cool maybe she is a little kinky. I really don't think this will lead anywhere but if it does I was far warned