First off if kathy said anything to my wife she hasn't said anything. Just last week they went to the movie theather to see Magic Mike. This is like the first time my wife went with he to the movies . They really don't do much together. And yes I had the polish on for 10 days and my wife knew I had the polish on and didn't say anything while her friend stayed over. I am sorry if some of you feel that I am a JERK but gaining acceptance from her felt real good . I didn't realize that I was being foolish and self centered telling her frind. Has anyone ever cried out for attention or am I the only one ??? Maybe someday she will tell her but they spoke on the phone and that conversation never came up