This is a great thread!
I feel this way exactly. I think part of it is the time and energy it takes to dress up. And also that, at least in my wardrobe, the clothing is a bit more sexy. I may cover up with a denim skirt and a button down shirt, but the feel of what's beneath is still a turn on.
Maybe it's because we have already crossed a gender boundary?
However it works out, I wouldn't classify myself as gay. I do know I'm up for more "alternative" options when I'm dressed.
Anyway, great thread, keep it up!
ShoeziQ