As a woman I have no problem with crossdressing in general or crossdressers.
If my son wanted to, no problem. My brother, father, friend ect... no problem. I would go out shopping with them and have a blast. But I am not attracted to any of these people in my life.
As a straight woman I am attracted to men. Men who look like men. With body hair. I accept that my husband cross dresses part time in private because I love him, but do I want to see it? Nope. Is the idea of it something that turns me on? Absolutely not.
I think if I went on a date with someone I did not know and they told me they crossdressed that would be the end of thinking of them in a sexual way for me. Now if I really liked them as a person we could go out shopping and all of that stuff, but I think that would be as far as the relationship would go.
I found out about my husband after we had been together for years and were already in love, so I had a reason to try to understand and accept it, but I just couldn't see it working out that way in a new relationship.
