Sorry Barbara! I think the word, "Passing" means the same to pretty much everyone! It means that vanilla people think U R A FEMALE!
Some people can pass all the time. Some people can pass some of the time. Some people can pass while driving by folks on a moonless nite on a back country road. And, then there's the REST OF US!
U can go out dressed as Santa Claus and say u "passed". That doesn't mean u did. Maybe u don't CARE if u pass or not? That's NOT passing either!
Because I can't pass, going out in public dressed is VERY stressful for me!
U can call it BS if u like Heather! But, it's a very unattainable dream for many of us!
