Passing - It's Really BS

[Voulez-Vous]

It's my fantasy all the time

And that's part of the problem. It's just a "fantasy" to some believing that they can pass.

I have to wonder if you aren't a bit jealous of the kind that *are* passable?

Hell yes...who wouldn't be jealous of the kind that are 100% passable?
The difference is being able to be honest that you're not passable and having enough sense not to make a fool of yourself.