Its too bad you could not have stopped and asked her what she means by what she said. If you have that chance, either you learn that what you thought is not what she thought, or she meant what she said, but she is going to feel pretty bad having to repeat it...especially if you tell her how much she just hurt your feelings. ...anyhow, I've had some small situations where I could read the distaste of the other person and at first it hurts, then I feel angry and sad at how sheltered their lives must me.
