[SIZE="4"]DADT is pretty much like building a wall between you and your spouse. You can talk and be friends, but there's always this "other woman" that she naturally doesn't care for. Can you blame her?
The only way this is going to work is for your wife to embrace the "other woman" and make her a friend too. Otherwise it's just a life of tension and other difficulties. When a woman, or a man for that matter, doesn't like something that is happening around them, it's pretty much impossible not to show disdain in a multitude of subtle and not-so-subtle ways.[/SIZE]
