In my case I never had any interest or involvement with crossdressing until after I was married. My crossdressing is something my wife does not know about and I do feel confident, from general conversations, that it is not something she would accept. This might be a little unusual for crossdressers. While I feel I have always had a more feminine side there was never any thought about expressing it until I was already married and older. I have been married for 16 years but never considered crossdressing until about 9 years ago. However, I did not really start fully dressing and getting out until a little under 2 years ago. In any case I did not have that information available to present to my wife before we got married. Delicate situation.
