This thread hits home big time. My wife is in a wheel chair, with muscular distrophy, and later, breast cancer. She knew about Celeste from very early on, when she was healthier. She was mildly supporting, but would not let me go out, and some really girly things pissed her off. As her desease progressed, to the point she needed constant care, she became overwhelmingly accepting, giving me free reign. We do everthing together, me en femme. So... I've often wondered, is this acceptance free will, or the trade off for her constant care? On the most possitive note, even if it's the trade off, it benefits both of us, and if she truly understands my need to be Celeste, it benefits both of us. I love my wife, will care for her 'till the day she dies, and we live in a win win situation.- Celeste
