It's way cool, providing she doesn't do what I did.Originally Posted by Meghan M
I've always taken pride in my appearance. I'm artistic by nature so beautiful design whether it art, craft, buildings, furniture, clothing, electronics, you name it is central in my life. I notice shape, color, texture, light, shadow, dimension, balance, function and this also translates to the things I choose to put on myself, no matter what occasion I dress for, even if it is very casual with just a pair of jeans and a sweater. In other words, I'm picky about the things that I buy and I have an eye for style even if it is simple style. I have my very own brand of femininity.
When my SO and I started to go out in public, our first outings were at a local LGBT club where people wore a lot of sexy looking things, and needless to say, the average age of the patrons was way younger than me. :p I kept noticing my SO's eyes pop out of her head every time a young sexy thing walked by, and so I also got into the high heels, short sexy dresses, elaborate eye makeup (I can get away with it because I have a youthful body and look young for my age). I actually got myself to look like a vamp a few times and honestly I got a lot of attention too! lol
But, it wasn't me. I did it for all the wrong reasons. I was competing with the women whom I thought my SO found beautiful.
I don't do this anymore.
Hopefully your wife is better motivated than I was, and she truly is getting in touch with her own femininity rather than try to put together an image of what she thinks you want or are attracted to.
