It sounds like u have your situation well in hand, Ryan. I can only add perspective from one much older.

It seems that as we age, hormone changes gradually strive to turn us more female over time. Probably why I started dressing out of the blue at age 50+.

U have so much time to explore what u want. And, it seems u realize that u may continue to change over the years.

Finally, try doing more fem things. Especially those u don't find appealing. If u try them and they don't feel good, then you'll know. My guess is, some will feel good and that may surprise u!